I am flawed without question.

Recovery from an abuser is never an easy road to take but none the less a necessary one to health and healing. A throbbing heart is a reminder of God. The bruised, damaged and broken are all around us not just ones that are obvious and the ones that ask for help, they are standing next to us everywhere.  Many years of suppressed emotions.  My words are my identity, a way for me to tell who I am on the inside.  Then there’s that voice in my head that I listen to it tell me that I can’t do something, that something is impossible, or that I do not have the skills to achieve something.

This kind of thinking is simply not true, and it keeps us stuck in neutral, instead of moving forward.  We all want things, but to get them, we have to believe in our ability to accomplish them.  We have to change our thinking form “I can’t to “Of course I can.” What we believe, we can achieve.  It is like the famous saying, “whether you tell yourself, or you tell yourself you can’t, One important difference is to learn to turn our failures in to successes.  Many people fail at something and decide that this is and end point.  People who get what they want and achieve greatness simply look at a failure as a lesson and try to see what can be learned from it.  raise money for a lawyer

Insight, my insight that is…..

We live in a time when it is hard to speak from the heart and for the most part life is a routine, it’s not glamorous or exciting, it actually can even be boring.
The world is full enough of grand moralizing and private visions, some people believe that we learn best by wandering forth into an uncharted universe and making sense of the lessons that life provides. While others believe that we learn best by being taught the most complete knowledge possible about a subject, then being sent forth to practice and use that knowledge.
And to end this…… Let me share the moment that inspired this thought.
My youngest daughter was eating cake for my grandfathers birthday and my oldest got frustrated with her because she dumped the whole thing on the floor with a smile of course and my grandfather said to my oldest that she wasn’t educated yet and giggled a little….